In fact, that’s one of the main reasons you started your business.
Plus, making money, of course.
And let’s not forget about freedom!
The freedom to do what you want, when you want it, how you want it.
To work with people you love, do work that matters, and still have plenty of time for yourself, your family and your friends.
The freedom to express yourself fully.
The freedom to be YOU.
You want all of the above.
More of it than you currently have, even.
You don’t want to work yourself into the ground to get it.
You’re not willing to sacrifice yourself or anything you care about.
You don’t want to lose your freedom, your inner peace, or your joy.
You don’t want to change who you are.
You don’t want to compromise on what you believe in.
And you don’t want to do things you hate.
Is that possible? You doubt it.
You must keep your clients happy and deliver great work.
You have many obligations and to-do’s in your business and personal life.
There are so many things you think you should do that sometimes, it drives you CRAZY.
But that’s all part of the game.
Or so you think.
You can’t just do as you please and expect to get paid for, well, being YOU and doing only what you love, right?
In fact, the KEY to feel free, grow your business, add more value, AND feel happy & fulfilled is this:
To be true to YOU in everything you do.
To be ALL of who you are in EVERY area of your business & life;
To do EVERYTHING on your terms and your own way – regardless of what the business ‘gurus’ tell you.
Regardless of what everyone around you is doing.
And regardless of what you think is possible!
To get back to your soul.
And to not only honor ALL of who you TRULY are, but to build your ENTIRE business & life around it – without watering down yourself, your message, your purpose or your dreams.
That’s what being Divinely Selfish is all about:
To put YOU first.
So you can serve without suffering.
And get results and make a difference as A RESULT of being FULLY you – not despite of it.
How do I know this is true?
Because this is how I turned my business around.
So many aspects of my personality and my soul purpose seemed to contradict each other, that it drove me crazy for years.
Why was I a coach when human interaction drains me so quickly? (I’m a real hermit who needs to be alone around 90% of the time).
How the hell did I end up with a mission to reach people globally when I hate travelling, and don’t want to leave the house too often?
My seemingly weird combination of needs, desires, personality, and dreams taught me some very important lessons, though.
It helped me get VERY clear on what I REALLY want, and what I need to be able to make a difference without compromising and draining myself.
I’ve learned how to be completely free in my business, and run and grow my business in a way that is in TOTAL alignment with my purpose, passion and personality.
I turned myself from a Crappy Hermit into a Happy Hermit, growing my business globally while NEVER making more than 4 appointments per week - for 3 weeks per month ONLY.
Every 4th week is my Hermit Week: a completely appointment-free week!
You may not be a hermit like me. Your wishes, dreams, needs and personality may be totally different.
But if I can grow my business without compromising any of my needs or dreams…than YOU can as well!
I know, because over the past 16 years I’ve been teaching my clients how to be Divinely Selfish, too.
And even though all my clients had different personalities and businesses, here’s what they ALL had in common:
YOU can learn how to do this, too. Which will make you happier, help your business thrive, AND help you serve your clients even better. Because when you give yourself what you need FIRST, you are free to give the BEST of yourself NEXT.
“I used to think I needed to follow a strict set of rules and take specific actions to run my business.
I now know that’s not true at all.
I’ve learned that the happier I am with the way I do business, the more my clients benefit as well.”
Suzanne Meijles, protaal.nl
“I wasn’t happy: I followed the rules and what I thought I ‘should’ be doing, but somehow wasn’t able to do business in MY own way.
Brigitte taught me how to use and trust my intuition in my business, and this helped me get a lot more done with a lot less effort.
Now I have the courage to do things MY way instead of using the same standard format most entrepreneurs follow.
I found my strength, and get better results, too!”
Alexandra Hilbers, www.opeigenwijze.org
“I was looking for someone to help me throw out all rules and conventions, so I could find my OWN way of doing business.
I didn’t want to compare myself to others anymore, but focus on what I wanted instead.
Brigitte helped me find my own path, and how to follow it.
I’ve stopped doing what I no longer want and what no longer fits me.
As a result, I work with much more ease, I’m doing what I love, and I have accomplished my dream of experiencing freedom in my business and life!”
Nicole Offenberg, www.nicoleoffenberg.nl
Being a part of this community will support you to:
"I was working too hard.
I lost touch with myself, and the things that made me happy.
Working with Brigitte helped me reconnect with myself.
I learned to let go of what no longer serves me, and to stop feeling responsible for everyone and everything around me.
As a result, I’m able to deliver much more impact and value for my clients, and bring more change to the world.
And I am happier, more fulfilled and vibrant than I’ve been in a long, long time.”
Anne-Else Højberg, mensenlatenschitteren.nl
"I signed up for one of Brigitte’s programs to learn how to stay true to myself in my business, and do it all on my terms.
And she absolutely delivers what she promises: to create success as a result of doing business on your own terms.
No one models and teaches that better than Brigitte."
-Carolien van den Akker, www.carolienvandenakker.nl
"Before I worked with Brigitte, I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to make money with what I love doing most.
I didn’t go for what I truly wanted.
And often got distracted by how you’re ‘supposed’ to do business. Even though most of those ‘rules’ don’t work for me.
Thanks to working with Brigitte, I now AM only doing what I most love to do: combining humor & transformation in workshops and other projects.
And it’s paying off big time: I’m attracting more clients, and sent out 4 new proposals last week!"
-Marleen Bekker, marleenbekker.com
⭐ 21-day Empowerment Journaling Journey
This journey finished on September 8, BUT you can still download the master class & PDF with all journaling prompts. These rock and make a BIG difference! (Well, only if you actually journal on them, of course ;-) )
⭐A master class on boundaries.
Such an important topic. And there's SO much more to it than setting boundaries AND holding yourself (and others) to them. This master class teaches you all about it.
⭐A master class on raising your prices & fees.
The mindset and the practical stuff.
Plus the regular goodness you receive as listed below:
(and who knows what else I'll feel inspired to create for you...)
Calls where you can ask me all your questions and receive laser-coaching on doing business & life in your own way, on your own terms.
Not sure what your best next step is? Ask and I’ll help you get clear.
Need some extra support and inspiration to be true to YOU – regardless of what others do or will think of you? That’s what you get from EVERY call, regardless of whether you ask a question or not.
You get access to one 1-hour Q&A call per month. All calls are recorded if you can’t be there live.
On all kinds of topics directly related to putting YOU first – so you can help others & grow your business without wearing yourself out.
Topics like for example:
You receive 6 master classes per year.
But only if I feel like it.
Divine Selfishness in action, baby:
When I put ME first and deliver this program EXACTLY how I LOVE to deliver it, YOU automatically get the best of me.
A win-win for both of us! :-)
I’m currently working on the first one, that’s ALL about getting clear on the TRUE dream you have for your business & life – and why you don’t know that OR aren’t going for it yet.
The second one is all about Divine Selfishness in action: the mindset, beingness & energy you need to put yourself first – plus practical tips & tools to do that in your business & life.
For now, I know there will be 4 books in this series for sure.
The first one will be published somewhere at the end of 2019/beginning of 2020.
In addition to being the very FIRST to receive every book before it’s released to the public, you also:
Mix & mingle with like-minded women. Or just hang out in the background and absorb the inspiration whenever you like. It’s your call!
It’s a promotion free, safe space where you can ask questions and get inspiration that help you be true to YOU, and do business & life in your own way, on your own terms.
I’ll also be doing spontaneous Facebook lives AND share additional inspiration here.
My online program – No Goals, No Plans, No Soul-Sucking Strategies - build your business organically, intuitively & 100% YOUR way!
(A 197 Euro value.)
Learn EXACTLY how to find your very own way to grow your business – so you can throw out all the rules & shoulds you think you must follow, and carve your own path instead.
“I was in my head too much and didn’t share the full depth of my message. Brigitte helped me shift this.
She showed me how to love myself more, to feel that I’m worthy just because I am. And that I’m worthy to manifest my dreams.
I now choose to only do the things I truly want to do – I no longer adjust myself to others or the market.
I am more determined than ever before to be happy, and said goodbye to changing who I truly am permanently!"
Gonneke van Dorst, pureaantrekkingskracht.com
“I lost touch with my drive, my passion, fun, and myself.
Working with Brigitte helped me reconnect to everything that really matters to me.
I feel inspired and in the flow again. I learned how to do business in MY own way, the Else-way.
Brigitte has been a great coach and role model for me.
She’s deeply driven to make a difference, but never at her own expense. She models how to take care of clients AND herself like no one I know.
And she’s is 100% committed to helping you be the best you can be, on your own terms, in a way that’s best for you."
Else Boutkan, elseboutkan.nl
You get instant access to:
Throughout the year, you’ll receive:
You join for one year.
At the end of that year, you automatically renew for another year.
Or, if you don’t want that, you can easily cancel upfront.
No hoops to jump through or mountains to move.
Rest assured. Your payment is processed on a secure server. * 21% VAT for participants in The Netherlands not included. Prices in dollars may vary, depending on the current exchange rate.)
“Do you sometimes wonder why all your knowledge on marketing still doesn’t work for you?
I did. And now I know why: I needed to implement it in my own way.
That’s exactly what Brigitte taught me: to create success in my own way, on my own terms.
By being true to myself.
And it works!! I’m already experiencing my first real breakthrough with my brand new online program: 13 people signed up for it within two weeks!”
Karla Mooy, ontspannenopvoeden.nl
“My schedule was incredibly full, and I lost my sense of freedom which made me feel restless.
Thanks to Brigitte’s, I created my ideal business that is a perfect match for me: I changed my business model, uncovered how I most love to work (and created a schedule to support that); chose to work with my ideal clients only AND made significantly more money.
I created rest in my schedule and my mind, and it feels great!”
Sabine van Meenen, sabinevanmeenen.be
What happens when the year is over? Your subscription will be automatically renewed for another year. If you don’t want that, no worries: you can easily cancel upfront.
What if I want to cancel, how does that work? You can easily cancel from within your account. Or send an email to my team, and they’ll take care of it for you. Easy peasy!
Do you have a refund policy? Nope. No refunds. You get instant access to a 197 Euro value bonus that’s yours to keep, PLUS all other current content.
Have another question that’s not answered here? Just send an email to: team [at] brigittevantuijl.com and we’ll get back to you as soon as we can!
Why join now?
* Because you get instant access to all content available in the community (master classes / call recordings / and the complete program 'No Goals, No Plans, No Soul-sucking Strategies - grow your business organically, intuitively and 100% YOUR way);
* instant access to a Facebook group with likeminded women;
* access to upcoming Q&A calls where you can ask me all your Q's and receive laser coaching;
* behind-the-scenes updates on my book(s) and business;
* get a copy of my book(s) BEFORE anyone else can get their hands on it;
* and much more.
But most of all?
By joining the community, you make a commitment to YOURSELF:
That it's time to put YOU first.
That you're no longer available for anyone else's bullshit.
That from now on, you're here to live YOUR live, YOUR dreams, in YOUR way - instead of constantly trying to please everyone else around you.
Sure, you still care about others. You're still there for your clients and loved ones.
But NO LONGER at your own expense.
You're choosing YOU now.
And as a result of putting you first and live from your soul?
You make an even bigger difference.
And your business & life make you happier and fulfill you more than ever before.
YES, I’m committed to myself and I am IN!!!
About Brigitte van Tuijl
I’m a writer and a purpose & breakthrough master, teaching you how to fully express your soul and be completely true to yourself in every area of your business & life.
I work with women entrepreneurs and help you do business & life YOUR way, without compromising, sacrificing or changing who you are.
I have 16 years experience as an entrepreneur, and well over 18 years experience as a (business) coach.
I'm a thorougly trained master coach; highly intuitive & a powerful energy worker.
Plus: I'm a published author of the Dutch book "Ontdek Wat Je Echt Wilt - En Maak Daar (Je) Werk Van.
Currently working on my upcoming book series:
"The Art of Divine Selfishness - how to transform your life, your business & the world by putting yourself first."
And finally: I LOVE people - in moderation ;-)
That's why I limit appointments to an ABSOLUTE maximum of 4 per week.
Having loads of alone time keeps me happy and prevents me from turning into a raging alcoholic lunatic ;-)
Legal Disclaimer: Every effort has been made to accurately represent this program and its potential. Each individual’s success depends on her background, dedication, desire, and motivation. The more you put into this program in terms of listening to the master classes, implementing the action steps, asking your questions in the Facebook group and/or in the group coaching calls, the more you’ll get out of it.